Mercy Mistress: life through a queer and kinky lens

December 26, 2018

Mercy Mistress, coming out in early 2019, is one of the most highly anticipated web series for the Asian Femme. Based on the memoirs of a queer Chinese-American dominatrix in New York City, this dramatic dark comedy is more than just a sex work activist narrative. It takes marginalized voices and makes them ordinary and approachable in surprising stories around body, intimacy, and identity. 

The series is the product of a mostly female creative team based on the the work of Yin Quan.  The writer’s experiences as a professional dominatrix memoir are played on screen by Poppy Liu who excitedly invites us into this kinky world and tells us more about the film. We spoke with both Yin, the writer, and Poppy, the actress, alongside their new executive producer Margaret Cho.

Hi Yin and Poppy! First of all, congratulations on Mercy Mistress. You two are the power duo of this web series. I wanted to ask what’s it like working with each other?

Yin: Working with Poppy has been an incredible life experience. We share a great deal of core values: activism, integrity to our community, and stories. But we are also very different in our general personalities. Poppy is vivacious—true to her chosen name. I tend to have a more reserved and darker modality, so we balance one another in the production work.

Poppy: Yin is like family to me and we care about each other very much. I think loving the people you work with is very important in storytelling, especially when it is as intimate a story as this. There is a lot of trust you have to have in one another. Trust that people will have your back and that people will see you the way that you wish to be seen.

Could you briefly tell us how this project started and what was the casting process like?

Yin: There is a motley of reasons why I wanted to produce Mercy Mistress. It is a vehicle of validation. Everyone in the kink world felt a gut-punching reaction to ‘50 Shades of Grey.’ We all wanted to tell it from an authentic point of view. With casting—the most important element was the basic respect for BDSM and sex work. Poppy and I had known one another—she is an abortion rights activist and doula [birth companion, Ed.] and the progression to sending her the script felt like perfect alignment.

How much of yourselves is in Mistress Yin?

Yin: Mistress Yin is fictionalized and updated to be a millenial. I’d say that she is about 60% true to me, but that ratio may change as the story progresses.

Poppy: I saw some obvious overlaps as a queer Chinese American child of immigrants living in the States. I definitely felt able to access certain parts of myself which I don’t always get to do while playing a role. I hope that stories like this can be one of many building blocks to create a cultural space where we can exist.

It’s honestly delightful to see that MM is a women-dominated team. How was that experience?

Yin: It’s been an incredible journey to work with these talented and passionate women. There is such care in the communication and a real respect that transfers to how I am able to handle the more stressful situations in production. In fact, I feel that the female gaze created an overall sensual story rather than relying on sexual imagery as rote sensationalism.

Ah, and recently Margaret Cho teamed up with you as one of your new executive producers?

Poppy: Yes! Teaming up with Margaret has been a dream come true. When we were thinking about our dream executive producers, Margaret’s name was at the top of that list. She is one of the few visible queer Asian American women in media and it is her work that has paved the way for stories like this to happen.

Yin: Queer, Asian American, sex positive, feminist who tackles the topic of trauma with hilarity … This is the perfect collaboration. I’m both humbled and ecstatic.

Everyone’s elated upon your announcement of joining MM. Did you know Yin and Poppy before you joined?

Margaret Cho: I really fell for the project at first sight. I hadn’t met Yin and Poppy before, but I felt like I already knew them through our shared experience of Asian American queer freakiness! They had such a fresh perspective and were telling stories I related to so deeply—we must have collaborated in another life! It all feels so easy and familiar.

Mercy Mistress without a doubt involves a lot of important themes for which you’ve been a strong advocate since forever. As a representative of Asian Americans, what’s the relevance of this story in Hollywood?

Margaret Cho: It puts the power in the hands of Asian American women—and that’s what makes it so personal and thrilling for me. We’ve been objectified so much for so long—often our role is to be some kind of fantasy figure and not real. Mercy Mistress speaks to the realness. I love the realness. I hope people will get excited about breaking new ground—and find it as moving and sexy as I do!

To wrap this up, what would you like to impart to your audience after this passion project?

Yin: More media needs to show the work of sex workers from a respectful and realistic perspective. I hope to tantalize viewers with an erotic taboo while feeding them the serious issues of bodily autonomy, too.

Poppy: This is the heart of what looking at identity with an intersectional lens means. I hope that when Asian women see this series—whether they are kinky or not—they see a protagonist on screen who is empowered in her own sexuality and who owns her own body. Someone who contradicts and subverts the stereotypes because we are so much more.

Connect with @MercyMistress on Facebook and InstagramMargaret Cho will present Mercy Mistress at Museum of Sex on January 7th, Monday at 730pmClick here for more information.